Woman Freaks Out After Seeing Her “Straight” Boyfriend On Grindr

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Busting your “straight” boyfriend on Grindr

Imagine finding out the person you’ve been dating hasn’t been exactly honest about their sexual orientation.  What would it be like to discover they’ve been using gay apps to get their hook up on? Would you freak out? How about stalk them with a fake profile?

Well, that’s exactly what happened in the case of one women who told her tale on Relationship Talk. Hoping to gain insight and support, “Lost and Confused” revealed the following.

“I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with a guy I thought was the one. Of course we have had our issues but nothing like we are going through now.

A month ago I found out he was on dating sites including craigslist and manhunt. I was in complete shock. We fought for 2 days, bags were packed, I was broken.”

She continues with her story:

“He said over and over again that he never acted on it because he was at least man enough not to do that, that I was always on his mind and it kept him away from it.”

Apparently, she needed to know more.

“When he was ready to leave the door I again asked him if he had ever cheated on me and his answer was still no, I believed him because at this point why would he lie if it’s already over.

It’s been a month and our relationship has changed dramatically, in a good way.

I’ve still been guarded but we have both been trying very hard to be the best we could be for each other. But something kept nagging at me so I looked again. He is still using manhunt and also had a grindr account.”

Feeling apprehensive, she decides to catfish him by creating a phony Grindr account. The plot thickens.

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“As awful as it is, I had made a fake grindr account and was speaking to him as a gay man. I felt like I was the one being more sexual and he was just responding. But thats how I know he is lying, that it isnt old news and he is still doing it.

Now has been 3 days and I can’t even look at him. I love him so much but I feel disgusted, from the lies, wondering if when we are intimate if he wishes I was a man and if he had or will act on it. I don’t want to lose him but I don’t want to be “that girl” who has to regularly check on him and spy. So unbelievably stressed and anxious.

Don’t know what to do.”

As you might imagine, the advice offered from commenters is all over the map. Here’s a few of the more interesting ones.

Lovelife says: “First of all he is a liar. Second of all he is clearly cheating. Thirdly he clearly likes men. Why are you still with him? All the excuses in the world will not change what is going on, accept it & move on. There are more fish in the sea.”

Elias shares: “Leave Now!”

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Kara wrote: “Wow! I’m happy that I am not alone girl! I felt disgusted when I found out. I really felt he loves me because of efforts and expensive gifts! Lol but I found out he’s on Grindr too.”

What should Lost and Confused Do?