Straight Guy Confused After Hot Hookup with Gay Roommate

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Straight guys hooking up with their gay roommates apparently is a thing!

Having a roommate can at times be difficult. There’s figuring out who does the chores, how to split bills – and what to do if you identify as straight and hookup with your gay housemate!

According to a recent post on Reddit’s Ask Gay Bros, one young man is facing such a dilemma right now.

Here’s what we shared in a thread with the goal of seeking advice.

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“I (m26) live with a friend (m28) and we have been living together for sometime, I know he is gay and it has never been an issue, we each let the other know if we are bringing someone home and we get along fine.

He has never made a pass at me or flirted with me before now and that’s part of what has me confused. I was lying on the couch watching TV a few nights ago when he arrives home and sits beside me, we chatted about random sh*t for an hour then he suddenly mentioned how good I was looking. I thanked him and before I could say more he kissed me.”

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His story continues and becomes more detailed:

“I didn’t stop the kiss and openly encouraged it, I hadn’t felt like that before but I enjoyed it. He then started undressing me, I helped and before I could say anything to stop him he was sucking me, after that I couldn’t say much and he kept going until I came.”

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In a new paragraph, which he wonders out loud what it all means. What’s interesting here is how, almost with anticipation, he’s curious if it might happen again:

“Then we curled up on the couch for the night and eventually he went up to bed. I enjoyed it and I don’t know why, I have no interest in guys, never have, but already I’m wondering whether it will happen again or if we will go further with it.

Has anyone else gone through this?”

The respondents on Reddit have various thoughts on this topic. Some offer the requested advice. Others hold different opinions.

Here is a sampling:

“Congratulations, you allowed yourself to have a genuinely intimate experience with someone you get along with well. You may have never experienced any same sex attraction in the past that you’re aware of, but perhaps there was always something there and it just took this as the little nudge you needed.”

Another writes:

“Wow, I really hope you were unconsciously sending him signals of attraction instead of him just.. attacking you with seemingly no pretense.

I’d also like to thank you for feeding the straight guy fantasies of this subreddit.

Glad you got head though. Good job.”

This Reddit poster has a series of questions:

“So my question is: how on earth are you two living together without freaking out?? I mean, you live together! I feel like a prude, but I just dont get how you can be like “that happened, and it might happen again”. Especially as a straight man, does his presence not induce some internal existential crisis?”

Have you ever hooked up with your straight roommate? What advice might you give this Reddit poster?